Engineering of the creator of this world is not only technically perfect but very colorful and full of fragrance. What do you think, is there somebody sitting and creating this magnificent world. No, this is nothing but a creative energy working through you and me. Its all depend on you and me whether we allow this energy to work or not. If you are an engineer and you know all technical knowledge but if you are not creative you are not able to think unique and new. You are only a robot, not a human being. Every year innumerable engineers are passing out from different universities but very few are capable of making miracles. Otherwise all other are having a stable good job, good package and job security. No, you are not really completed with these all. You are a human being more than an engineer. When you start to allow a space within you, you can feel a great creative force is working through you. And you have nothing to do for it. Already you are an engineer. You have proved that you are there to create, you are there to make this world not only more comfortable but beautiful also. Now, what is required to add that omnipotent creative energy with your caliber? We call it space within you, which can be easily created by Meditation. Actually what happens when you try to meditate?

You will find a lot many thoughts and uneasiness during the first few days but if you are patient and trying a few more days you will find gaps in your thoughts. But for that you just have to sit, you don’t have to do any effort to stop your thoughts or to create this gap. Just sit every day for 15-20 minutes and watch what happens. And you will find in this small gaps, the mind will get some rest. And always remember only rest or relaxation begets creativity. As mind will get rest. It will be revived it will be rejuvenated. It will be vivified. And now you can see how this creative force starts to bloom. You will get a hundred and one new ideas. New ways of doing the old routine things and new concepts of doing unique things. Be aware of your creative possibility otherwise, you will be only a servant of a few creative people. Take care this is the right time to be an owner. To be a leader and it won’t be exasperation to say to be a god. Because whole creation has got the energy called god and when you create you became that energy called god. Start to sit just sitting and doing nothing and I assume from my experience the creativity and courage to make it true it will shower on you.

Everyone is in need of development. Everybody wants to go ahead, wants to earn best, wants to be famous among people. And this hankering makes him find the personality development. Without knowing what exactly the personality is? A person wants to develop it. Let’s understand what personality is?

We have come into this world without any name, cast, and cult. Schools and colleges gave us a sense of competition and comparison. Society gave us the sense of honor and character. These all made our personality. What do they mean? Be smart that no one could befool you, no one could misuse you. But deep down they are saying, be smart to befool others, be smart to misuse others. Be smart like the western concept to misuse and throw. They never teach you to be loving and compassionate. Because one who is heartful is weak and feeble. You should not be vulnerable; you must be hard and professional. Then only you can misuse and throw people. You must be having willpower, resolution and you should never surrender. And I must tell you, if you have willpower but not the art of surrender and love, you will be dry and dictator. No one takes care of your original being. What I feel is that you must try to find out your original face and authentic nature. What God has provided you. My master would say to me, “ Every day God comes to people but he doesn’t find them on their right address.” Because he made an artist has become a doctor. He made a leader and that pleader has become a saint. It’s only because the society was demanding an MBA or Doctor or anything else. So everybody without caring his original nature becomes that. So God goes to the artist and he doesn’t find him because the person is trying to be something else. Until and unless you peep inside, you will not find the right solution. You should have the proper understanding of physical, mental, emotional and especially the spiritual needs and caliber. Without this, you can win the same, money and status but you will souse the very ecstasy, love, creativity, and art of relationship in your life. You may be ahead of a few people but you have lost the original life. And then, you use the words like satisfaction. But you can’t be fulfilled and contented. Be alert of this sort of personality development. Be original as God has made you. You are very unique, matchless and incomparable. Honor God and find out why are you here? What hidden potential is waiting to be explored.

And that art of finding the real and original person is meditation. We need right guidance, living atmosphere to grow. As a seed needs right water, sunlight and dares to open. Then a seed can come out with its all possible colors, fragrance, and fruits.

Sit silently and let it come out. Your program is hidden within you. Just sit and close your eyes. Let your thoughts settle. Don’t try to stop them. Wait and watch. As soon as borrowed thoughts settle, your original face will start to reveal itself.

And as you start to live in according to your innermost. Life becomes all-time celebration. Not only you but your surroundings also start to feel that coolness and blossoming with you.

The Temptation To Live An Undisciplined Life

In today’s society, we live in a world where temptations are everywhere. We have TV, video games and sports to ensure we never get bored. So is it any wonder that people struggle to focus on their school work, their jobs or their relationships? After all, why should you do something which is boring of hard, when you can do something that’s easy and fun instead?

Well, the reality is that you don’t have to do boring stuff and work hard, no one is forcing you to do that. Although if you choose not to do these things it is very likely that your school grades, job or relationships will suffer as a result.

Why? Because the things that are worth having in life, are often the things that require time, effort and hard work.

But if we live in a society that makes us have fun then how can we focus on obtaining the things that really do matter in life,

 Self Discipline In Life

The answer to this question is self-discipline. Discipline is the ability to retain yourself to do something that you know you must do, even if you don’t feel like it. In other words, discipline allows a person to resist the temptation of TV, video games, and sports. Thereby, allowing them to concentrate on their school work’s, jobs and relationships. The things that really matter and add value to your life.

 At the risk of sounding like a bore, I don’t intend to say that discipline means you can’t have fun in life. No, that would be silly. We all need time for fun and entertainment, but there must be a balance, otherwise, you will most likely fail to succeed in life. This is the reason why self-discipline is so important in life, especially in today’s society which is constantly tempting us to choose the easy way out.

 Developing Self Discipline

Self-discipline may require lots of hard work and a strong will to master. Eventually, the more you discipline yourself to resist succumbing to the temptations of life, the more your self-discipline will be strengthened.

So developing self-discipline is like any other skill in life. At first, it will be hard, but the more you practice the easier it will become. In a world that is made up of largely undisciplined and lazy people, (especially those living in developed countries) having strong self-discipline will give you an enormous advantage in life.

Have you ever given a thought that what is life? People curse life sometimes they admire but they never try to explore the life engineering. Let’s start to unveil this mystery. Try to unfold all the folds in which life exists. First, what is visible? It is our body. Have you ever try to understood or feel your body? The first misconception about your understanding is that ‘you are the body’. When I touch your hand and ask you, what is this? You say it’s my hand. You don’t say it’s me. You say it’s my face or it’s my leg or it’s my heart. So the first thing to be understood is, I am not the body, skin, flesh, blood, bones, and bone marrow. It’s all matter but with a great miraculous harmony, great coordination and great self-healing ability. When I asked a scientist, sir, can we make a machine like human body where we can put food material at one end and get waste material at the other end after extracting blood, bone, and flesh’. See how nicely your stomach is digesting what so ever you feed in 24 hours without any noise. Well, it’s a long way to understand our mysterious body function but what we can do is, we should salute that engineer every morning and we should take care of this marvelous gift of the God. Do one experiment to feel your body. Close your eyes and imagine for a few seconds that you have lost your legs in an accident. Feel it deeply. Then after few minutes touch them and thank god that they are still there. And one by one you can do with your all body parts. I must tell, you will fall in love with your body. Say to each part, I love you; I will take care of you. Now start to understand your mind. What is the mind? It is nothing but a bundle of thoughts. As you can not find society anywhere, it’s a group of people. So in the same way you can not find mind as it’s a group of thoughts. Again be clear with it, it is not you. it’s your mind or your thought, your opinions, your perceptions. To understand your mind you have to sit silently and start to watch your thoughts. Once Arvindo asked his master what is enlightenment? Master said “sit silently and feels your mind, it is a sweet jaggery and various flies as thoughts are hovering flying around. Wait and watch those flies until all flies go away and he sat 3 days continuously and eventually he said that the last fly has gone. Now there are no thoughts.

I must tell you from my own experience that if you regularly sit for 10 min for a few days. Authentically, you will find your thoughts aloof from you. You can actually find them as furniture in your room. Even you can throw unwanted thoughts and use creative thoughts as you like. And once you find a source of thoughts you can stop them any time or channelize them in a certain direction. Just sit silently and witness your breathing coming in and going out. You will be able to watch even thoughts.

Now start to understand your emotions. You just have to be a part of emotional activities and try to be alert that how they surround you, how they let you flow. It’s again a part of being conscious about your body, mind, and feelings. And then comes original “you” who are you? Who is watching and using body, mind, and emotions? And just by learning to watch body mind and emotions, you will find yourself, your being and your cosmopolitan nature. And that art of watching, knowing and being master of all is ‘Meditation’. Now you are a real engineer because you have found the secret of existence and final enlightenment.

The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, “This is for you, Daddy.”

The man was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found out the box was empty. He yelled at her, stating, “Don’t you know when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside? The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried, “Oh, Daddy, it’s not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. They’re all for you, Daddy.”

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child. It is also told that her father kept that gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each one of us, as humans beings, have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses… from our children, family members, friends, and God. There is simply no other possession, anyone could hold, more precious than this.